strive for：奋斗；争取
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To contribute and have our lives count for something.
count for：有价值；有重要性
把他人当做你的另一面 Others Are Only Mirrors of You
佚名/Anonymous
The first time you meet someone, in the first moment you form an impression in your mind of that person. Your reactions to other people, however, are really just barometers for how you perceive yourself. Your reactions to others say more about you than they do about others. You cannot really love or hate something about another person unless it reflects something you love or hate about yourself. We are usually drawn to those who are most like us and tend to dislike those who display those aspects of ourselves that we dislike.